Tantric sex expert reveals Tantric techniques for simultaneous orgasms in answer to a reader questions.
Question: My boyfriend comes too quickly. He lasts maybe 10 minutes usually — 15 minutes tops, but I take longer to orgasm. How can I teach him to pace himself? We have a really great emotional connection, and I don’t want to break up with him, but I am sexually frustrated most of the time.
The good news is it’s probably not the medical definition of premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation, which is a form of erectile dysfunction, is when a man ejaculates before or within about a minute of penetration. This means that 10 to 15 minutes is a good sign that your man can probably practice and be trained to last longer. Read more